Mind Games

Why do people play mind games with each other? Is it for sense of control, do they like to see other people lose control, or are they just confused individuals who are insecure??? Depending on the person, it's all of the above. Everybody has that someone that is always able to get under our skin and get a rise out of us no matter how hard we try to resist. They just know what button to push. First comes the rhetorical question. Then comes the argument. After that it's the guilt trip. Finally, it's some sort of reconciliation, apology, or make-up sex. It's like we give a reason for total resentment just to find a reason to love.

The day and age of unconditional love are being watered down by materialistic things and most of all, money. Whatever happened to falling in love with a man with a bus pass? Nowadays, it's "You don't love me cause you don't buy me shit!!!" Now I'm not saying that is true in all cases cause it's not. But the more I come across people who have just recently broken up or have gotten divorced. Money was the number one issue. If money's the issue, here's help(whatshotinfortune.blogspot.com). Whatever happened staying together for the kids? You know how many nut cases we got running around still pissed off about their parents divorce, which was a decade ago.

Some people were just born with chemical imbalances and can't even help it. So they're really just playing mind games with themselves. But if you watch TV(the ultimate mind game), they got a a drug for that, too. There are non-medicinal alternatives though. Like not eating to much sugar, drinking too alcohol, or indulging in too many drugs. Those things have been proven to directly effect the brain. Also, getting an amply supply of water everyday is vital for your mental health. Not tap water. Cause lord knows what's in that shit. So go out and buy a Brita if you have to. Not to mention getting some sort of daily exercise. Even if it's playing with your dog when you take it out for a walk... sweat a little. It releases endorphins and in turn gives you a sense of well-being.

Last but not least, make sure you're comfortable in your home. They say home is where the heart is. Your home is the place you should feel the most comfortable. If your brain is at ease, then your heart is at ease. Don't forget to laugh. Laughing actually takes years off of your real age. So if you're gonna play any type of mind game on someone, try to make sure everybody can laugh about it in the end. Cause after all, if you keep playing mind games with the person you love. You'll eventually end up losing that person and you'll only end up playing yourself.

Rahsheid White